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June 2013

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And just because I find rape disgusting, and have never had that impulse, doesn’t mean I can make a leap into the minds of women and dismiss how they feel day to day, moment to moment, in ways both blatant and subtle, from other men, and the way the media represents the world they live in, and from what they hear in songs, see in movies, and witness on stage in a comedy club.

There is a collective consciousness that can detect the presence (and approach) of something good or bad, in society or the world, before any hard “evidence” exists. It’s happening now with the concept of “rape culture.” Which, by the way, isn’t a concept. It’s a reality. I’m just not the one who’s going to bring it into focus. But I’ve read enough viewpoints, and spoken to enough of my female friends (comedians and non-comedians) to know it isn’t some vaporous hysteria, some false meme or convenient catch-phrase.

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In which Patton Oswalt gets it right. (via sodisarmingdarling)

*APPLAUDS*

Jun 17, 201325 notes

May 2013

9 posts

May 29, 201346 notes
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May 23, 20132 notes
#diva+cup
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#diva+cup
May 23, 20136 notes
“According to a new study, birth control pills with lower doses of estrogen—the ones that gynecologists have been pushing on many young women since they were in high school—may be linked to chronic pelvic pain, including pain during orgasm.” —

Yes, that’s right, Lizzie Crocker writes on Women in the World. “Your low-hormone pill could leave you screaming during sex for all the wrong reasons.”

The study, gleaned from an online survey involving 1,000 women between the ages of 19-39, found that women on lower-dose oral contraceptives (less than 20 micrograms of synthetic estrogen) were twice as likely to report pelvic pain during or after orgasm than those on contraceptives with higher estrogen levels, or those who weren’t on the pill at all.

These symptoms can be quite burdensome and painful depending on their severity and the way they affect quality of life,” lead researcher Dr. Nirit Rosenblum told The Daily Beast. “Young women in particular need to be aware of these adverse side effects because they are generally being prescribed the low-dose pills.

Rosenblum, who specializes in female pelvic medicine and reconstructive surgery at NYU Langone Medical Center in New York City, said she and her partners first noticed the link between low-dose pills and pain amongst their patients.

I’ve been taking this type of pill without any such issues since I was a teenager, before I even knew what pre-ejaculate was, let alone exactly how the pill prevented baby-making. All I knew was that the low-dose option was believed to be a better bet for women like me who have a history of breast cancer in their family.

But the latest study has me weighing whether to toss my trusty plastic pack of oral contraceptives altogether and use a diaphragm like they did in the old days. Sure, inserting a silicone cup into one’s vagina every time there’s a window of opportunity for sex is a bit of a hassle and, well, not exactly sexy. But when the other option might be never enjoying sex again, reaching for the dome-shaped device seems like a no-brainer. Or, if I don’t want revert back to the birth control of choice for my mother’s generation, I might sign up for IUD implantation, the Ortho Evra patch, or the progestogen-only Depo-Provera shot.

(via newsweek)

JESUS FUCKING CHRIST

IS THAT WHAT THAT WAS

YEAH OKAY FUCK EVERYTHING

(via girljanitor)

Women should have way more access to information about non-hormonal birth-control. I was on a couple of types of hormonal birth control for a year, and they seriously messed with my system in all sorts of very upsetting ways.

Then I got a copper IUD. I get it replaced once every five years. No mood swings, no constantly checking my calendar to see if I forgot to take a pill or change my patch, no strangeness in the timing of my cycle. 

I love my IUD. And everyone should be able to get access to birth control that works as well for them as my IUD works for me.

(via a-sassination)

Aargh. So much of this makes me angry at the world.

(via sparklegroin)

May 14, 2013152 notes
“Some men who want to compliment random women on the street are genuinely good guys who just don’t understand why their comments might be unwelcome. Some men who want to compliment random women on the street are creepy predators. Most are somewhere in between, and guess what? I don’t know you, I don’t know your life, and I have no idea if you’re going to leave it at “Hey, you look good in that dress!” or follow it up with “But you’d look better without it! Har har! C’mon, where’re you going? I know you heard me! Fucking cunt, nobody wants your fat ass anyway, bitch.”

When you compliment a random woman who doesn’t know you, no matter how nice you are about it, there’s a good chance she’s going to freak out internally because for all she knows, you could be that latter type. And I get that it’s really unfair that women would just assume that about you. I get that it sucks that sometimes, expressing totally reasonable opinions like “hey you’re hot” will make women terrified of you or furious at you. That’s not fair.

But if you’re going to lay the blame for that somewhere, for fuck’s sake, don’t blame the woman. Blame all the guys who have called her a bitch and a cunt for ignoring their advances. Blame all the guys who may have harassed, abused, or assaulted her in the past. Blame all the people who may never do such a thing themselves, but who were quick to blame her and tell her to just get over it. Blame the fact that if she stops and talks to you and then something bad happens, people will blame her for stopping and talking to you.”
—Why You Shouldn’t Tell That Random Girl On The Street That She’s Hot » Brute Reason  (via albinwonderland)
May 14, 201319,221 notes
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April 2013

2 posts

G R I M E S: I don't want to have to compromise my morals in order to make a living  → actuallygrimes.tumblr.com

actuallygrimes:

im tired of being congratulated for being thin because i can more easily fit into sample sizes from the runway 

im tired of people i love betraying me so they can get credit or money

I’m sad that it’s uncool or offensive to talk about environmental or human rights issues

I’m tired of creeps on message boards discussing whether or not they’d “fuck” me

I’m tired of people harassing my dancers and treating them like they aren’t human beings

I’m sad that my desire to be treated as an equal and as a human being is interpreted as hatred of men, rather than a request to be included and respected (I have four brothers and many male best friends and a dad and i promise i do not hate men at all, nor do i believe that all men are sexist or that all men behave in the ways described above)

Apr 24, 201318,418 notes
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March 2013

6 posts

Mar 20, 201355 notes
Mar 13, 20138,765 notes
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February 2013

6 posts

Feb 27, 20132,478 notes
Feb 27, 20133 notes
#bif naked #fan girl moment #rocknroll periods #bad ass #rad ladies
“I am over the passivity of good men. Where the hell are you? You live with us, make love with us, father us, befriend us, brother us, get nurtured and mothered and eternally supported by us, so why aren’t you standing with us? Why aren’t you driven to the point of madness by the rape and humiliation of us?” —

Eve Ensler: Over It (via dreamtater)

SO OVER IT.

Feb 25, 20135,689 notes
there's our catastrophe: LET ME TELL YOU ABOUT MY MENSTRUAL CUP → ourcatastrophe.tumblr.com

ourcatastrophe:

as someone who has used three different brands of menstrual cup (the keeper is completely terrible, the lunette is good, the divacup is good but I don’t like the Cult of the Diva Cup or how it’s become the generic name à la coke) I hereby declare myself a menstrual cup expert. no hang on a…

Interesting post on how using a menstrual cup can help reduce feelings of body dysphoria in regards to menstruation.

Feb 22, 201398 notes
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January 2013

4 posts

Jan 28, 201319,321 notes
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#periods #menstruation
Jan 16, 20133,571 notes
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December 2012

6 posts

Become Aware & Think. Maybe Even Give & Do.: Day 3. → becomeawarethendo.tumblr.com

becomeawarethendo:

Hello! Today I am going to talk about menstruation. It may be an awkward topic, but the cause of today’s charity is overlooked because of that awkwardness. So, here we go!

Today I introduce you to Lunapads, an organization with two causes:

  • Cause 1: Have you ever thought about how…

Wow! Thanks for sharing, I feel all warm and fuzzy.

Dec 21, 20124 notes
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menstrual chat

hardscum:

how do i keep my cloth pad from sliding? i am enjoying not having basically diaper rash but this thing keeps traveling despite the clippy thing

anybody have any tips for my profoundly awkward self?

Try wearing your cloth pads with snug-fitting underwear. If they are at all baggy or stretched out (as many people’s “period panties” tend to be) your pads will be slip-slidin’ all over the place! You can also experiment with different cuts/brands of underwear, since no underwear has the same crotch width, you might just need to find some with a slightly wider crotch so the pads have more to grip onto. Also cotton underwear works best, slippery synthetic underwear tends increase the sliding factor.

Dec 18, 201214 notes
VOTE FOR MY VIDEO IN THE PROJECT FOR AWESOME PLEASE → projectforawesome.com
Dec 18, 20121 note
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smallsangherheart:

So… should I buy two lunapads or a divacup? I don’t have a lot of money and I’m wondering which I should I get first.

Hmm, how ‘bout getting both and 15% off with discount code TUMBLR11 ? http://lunapads.com/divacup/divacup-kits/diva-cup-kit-mini-pantyliners.html

Dec 11, 20124 notes

November 2012

8 posts

Nov 28, 20121 note
#lunapads #luna pads #divacup #pinterest #giveaway #periods #menstruation
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#menstruation
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October 2012

9 posts

Oct 31, 2012477 notes
Oct 25, 201211,051 notes
emma .m. woolley: What it's like being a teen girl → sodisarmingdarling.tumblr.com

sodisarmingdarling:

The violations started small. I was 12, fairly tall with brand new boobs. My mother wouldn’t let me buy “real bras” for a long time. It didn’t occur to me that was weird until boys in my class started advising me to “stop wearing sports bras” because I was looking a little “saggy.”

It was a…

This! Times a million.

Oct 23, 201219,612 notes
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Oct 11, 20126 notes
#dayofthegirl #girleffct #one4her #education #educate girls #Uganda #Kenya #Tanzania #Ethiopia
Oct 11, 201268 notes
“Just being female made women candidates for perpetual medical care, because doctors began treating all the normal passages of their lives — puberty, menstruation, childbirth, and menopause — as illnesses. Menstruation in particular was seen as dangerous — “an internal wound, the real cause of all this tragedy,” said one physician. Many doctors believed that during their periods, women were deprived of blood to the brain, leaving them “idiotic” or temporarily insane. Early onset of menstruation was regarded as a sign a girl might be oversexed, and some doctors encouraged parents to keep prepubescent daughters on a vegetarian diet, since meat was seen as sexually “stimulating.” No matter what a woman’s complaint, doctors diagnosed a problem in the womb. Everything from a backache to hysteria was traced back to the childbearing organs. One professor of medicine thought that it was “as if the Almighty, in creating the female sex, had taken a uterus and built a woman around it.” —Gail Collins, in America’s Women: 400 Years of Dolls, Drudges, Helpmates, and Heroines; Chapter 6, Life Before the Civil War: Cleanliness and Corsetry (p. 116-117)
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